Types of Divorce
Understanding the different types of divorce and which one may be right for your situation.
No-Fault Divorce
No-fault divorce is available in all 50 states and is the most common type of divorce today. Key characteristics:
- Neither spouse has to prove the other did something wrong
- Grounds typically include "irreconcilable differences" or "irretrievable breakdown"
- Generally faster and less contentious than fault-based divorce
- Often requires a separation period before filing
Pure No-Fault States: Some states (like California and Florida) only offer no-fault divorce, while others allow both no-fault and fault-based options.
Fault-Based Divorce
In fault-based divorce, one spouse alleges specific wrongdoing by the other. Common fault grounds include:
- Adultery
- Cruelty or abuse
- Abandonment or desertion
- Imprisonment
- Habitual drunkenness or drug addiction
- Mental illness or incapacity
Proving fault may affect property division or alimony in some states, but also requires more evidence and typically a longer court process.
Uncontested Divorce
An uncontested divorce occurs when both spouses agree on all major issues:
- Division of property and debts
- Child custody and visitation
- Child support
- Spousal support (alimony)
Advantages:
- Faster resolution (weeks to months)
- Lower costs (often no trial needed)
- Less emotional stress
- More privacy (less public court proceedings)
- Greater control over outcomes
Contested Divorce
A contested divorce occurs when spouses cannot agree on one or more issues. The court must resolve disputed matters. Characteristics:
- Requires more extensive court involvement
- May involve discovery, depositions, and expert witnesses
- Typically takes longer (months to years)
- Higher costs due to attorney fees and court expenses
- Judge makes final decisions on unresolved issues
Mediated Divorce
Mediation involves a neutral third party who helps couples reach agreement:
- Both spouses meet with a mediator (sometimes with attorneys present)
- The mediator facilitates discussion but doesn't make decisions
- Typically less expensive than traditional litigation
- Couples maintain more control over outcomes
- Can be used even in contested situations
Collaborative Divorce
Collaborative divorce is a team approach where both parties commit to reaching settlement without going to court:
- Each spouse has their own attorney
- All parties sign an agreement to negotiate in good faith
- May involve financial specialists, child specialists, and coaches
- If collaboration fails, both attorneys must withdraw and new attorneys are hired for litigation
- Promotes cooperative problem-solving
Summary Divorce (Simplified Divorce)
Some states offer simplified divorce procedures for couples who meet certain criteria:
- Short marriage (often under 5 years)
- No children
- Limited property and debts
- Both parties agree to the divorce
- Neither party is seeking spousal support
Summary divorce involves less paperwork, lower costs, and faster processing.
Default Divorce
A default divorce occurs when one spouse files for divorce and the other fails to respond within the required time period:
- The non-responding spouse loses the right to contest
- The court may grant the divorce based on the petitioner's requests
- Common when spouses have lost contact or one refuses to participate
Choosing the Right Type
Consider these factors when deciding which divorce approach is right for you:
| If you... | Consider... |
|---|---|
| Agree on everything | Uncontested / Summary Divorce |
| Have some disagreements but want to cooperate | Mediation or Collaborative Divorce |
| Cannot communicate with your spouse | Contested Divorce with Attorney |
| Need to prove wrongdoing (affairs, abuse) | Fault-Based Divorce |
| Want to minimize conflict for children | Mediation or Collaborative Divorce |
Legal Disclaimer
This guide provides general information only. The types of divorce available to you depend on your state's laws and your specific circumstances. Consult with a qualified attorney for advice tailored to your situation.